Your main goal is to make your child feel comfortable and to help your child feel happy. 

If you can do this with methods for getting rid of bedwetting, then great.  However, putting the focus on your child first means that you will not lose track of your child’s comfort level as your try to help your child stop wetting the bed.

Tip #101: Love your child

If you are reading this book and trying to help your child, then you likely don’t need to be told - but does your child?  Children who are experiencing bedwetting and treatment for the problem often experience great upheavals of emotions.  They need your love more than ever, and they especially need to be told that they are loved - right now. Being affectionate and loving with your child will help reassure your child more than anything that he or she is still loved and accepted.  This can help give your child the strength to get over teasing and the other problems associated with bedwetting.

Don’t just assume your child knows you love them - especially if you have been short-tempered with them concerning bed wetting or bedwetting treatment.  Tell them.

Conclusion

Now that you have pondered more than one hundred ways to help your child with bedwetting, the time has come to choose which methods to use in helping your child. 

You may have chosen some methods to put into practice already or you may be wondering where to begin.  You will notice that the methods of dealing with bedwetting fall into a few broad categories:

•Time and patience: Often the most-recommended method, this means that parents and children wait until the body on its own learns to stop losing bladder control at night.  This can be a frustrating method, but tends to be an effective one, as most children tend to outgrow the problem on their own with time.  All methods require at least a small dose of time and patience to work.

•Behavior Modification: This method works by trying to “teach” the body to wake up in time in order to go to the bathroom.  Various methods are used in this treatment.  Moisture detector alarms, making bathroom access easier, visualization, and other techniques are all used.

•Reduction of Mess or Problem: Some parents simply see bed wetting as a natural part of childhood, and work to simply reduce the mess and inconvenience.  A number of products on the market today exist to help with this goal, including mattress liners, sleeping bad liners, disposable absorbent underpants, non-disposable absorbent products, and many others. 

These can all make mornings more pleasant until the child learns to sleep “dry.” In many cases, you should use one of these methods no matter what method you are using, as “accidents” may occur.

•Medical Treatment: Some parents seek doctor help with bedwetting.  This can be a good idea if a parent suspects an underlying cause may be the real problem behind bedwetting.  Even if the cause is not medical, doctors can prescribe medication that can control bedwetting.

•Holistic Treatment: A number of alternative treatments exist which help children with bedwetting.  Eating honey, hypnotherapy, and other such treatments have been found effective by some parents, even though these treatments do not work for everyone and even though in some cases not much research has been done about the efficacy of these treatments.

•Proxy Treatment - Rather than treating the problem, some parents choose to treat the problems caused by the problem. This can mean helping a child cope with teasing or clean-up or discomfort.  The idea is that if the problem is more bearable, the child will be able to wait for the problem to clear up on its own. 

Also, proxy treatment acknowledges that it is often not bedwetting itself that is a problem, but rather it is the problems caused by it that seem unbearable. 

Most parents use at least a few treatments, if not several.  They may use a few remedies to control the mess of bedwetting, for example, and use others to actually resolve the problem.  Different parents use different methods, just as different doctors will suggest different ways for dealing with bedwetting.  Whatever treatment system you choose for your child should have a few basic qualities.  It should:

•Be accepted by the child

•Not make the problem worse

•Be safe

•Be effective

•Be affordable for your family

•Cause a minimum of disruption in the home

•Not require so much time that other family activities or responsibilities suffer

•Be a system that both the child and the parent feel comfortable with

•Suit your child’s and family’s specific circumstances

•Not interfere with normal child development and activities

There are many treatments and tips throughout this ebook that may have these qualities for your case. Choose those tips that make sense to you and give them a try to see if they help.  Many parents have found help by following the advice on these pages, and now that you have the tips in this ebook, you will be able to effect similar success stories with your own family. 

Mornings will seem much nicer when your child is well rested AND happy, so go back, choose the tips you want to try and start your way to calmer wake-ups.